Shalom Bayis needs more than just giving in. n nBeing mevater is a beautiful ideal, one for which every Jew can and should strive. Marriage would be a non-stop battle if we insisted on always getting our way. Indeed, couples who can graciously and sincerely concede to the others needs possess a master key to harmony. n nHowever, vatranus or more accurately, a superficial simulation of this trait can also mask and sometimes trigger deep and profound problems in a marriage. n nIs your go-to strategy of giving in producing negative or dangerous side-effects in your marriage? Ask yourself some questions: n nFortunately, tools exist that can enable you to establish yourself as aseparate individual whose hands are on the controls of your own emotional life. You can exist and thrive as a couple, even in a state of disagreement, even in a state of conflict, even when one of you is occasionally unhappy with the other. You and Me Equals We is about those tools and how to use them.
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